ARE YOU A HIGH VALUE WOMAN?

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Are you accidentally devaluing yourself to meet societal expectations, accepting to be a doormat to be validated? .This has always been my problem, I never prioritized my values, and I let myself be used by people who made me second guess my worth. Once I started my leveling up journey, I realized the error of my ways and sought to be a high-value woman.

A high-value woman is a lady who values themselves and knows their worth. You can go after your dream and desires with confidence and integrity. You do not seek validation from anyone because you know who you are and your self-worth.

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Once I adopted the high-value mentality, I was able to take control of my life; I knew who and what to prioritize in my life. It’s not easy though because you tend to have a lot of distractions, whether family, your colleagues or even social media. If you choose to seek validation and respect from others by being a doormat, it shows that you are not taking yourself seriously, but once you start valuing yourself, you will notice that people respect you and your time.

How do you know that you are a high-value woman?

You prioritize yourself

A high-value woman has goals and aspirations that they are constantly working on and do not have time to let people get in the way. It does not mean that one’s become selfish; you recognize what is worth your time.

You have standards

You have a value system that you adhere to, and you communicate it to others. Your value system is non-negotiable, and you set boundaries on what you will accept and not accept if someone acts in a way that does not make you happy you let them know. Time is precious, and its best spent with people who uplift you and bring contentment to your life.

You are unapologetic

You do not try to impress anyone because you understand your self worth.instead of worrying how people perceive you are out there grinding to make your dreams happen. People might not agree with what you do, and they may think you are crazy, but you know what you are doing, you trust your intuition and focus on your plan.

You are self-aware

You know your strengths and weakness, and you do not need anyone to point it out to you.

You might think that you are not a high-value woman at all, after reading this post but take heart we all forget valuing ourselves from time to time. Seeking personal growth is an indicator that you are one.

“Always remember who you are and don't ever dull your shine for anyone or anything.”

― Tilicia Haridat

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